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Happy Mid-Autumn Festival!

Golden mooncakes for Mid-Autumn Festival

For me, Mid-Autumn Festival brings back happy memories of eating mooncakes with lotus paste and egg yolk, making red paper lanterns, spending time with friends and family in the backyard, and watching the full moon rise in the sky.

Mid-Autumn Festival, or 中秋节, occurs on the 15th day of the 8th month in the Chinese lunar calendar, around the autumn equinox; it is celebrated among many Asian cultures, including China, Taiwan, Vietnam, Korea, Japan, Thailand, Malaysia, Singapore, and the Philippines. The moon is fullest at this time, allowing for crops to be harvested. It is a time of abundance, family, friends, community, gratitude, and joy.

The folk tale most commonly associated with the Mid-Autumn Festival involves Chang’e (嫦娥) and Hou Yi (后羿), a wife and husband, respectively. There are many different versions of the story, so I will recount the one I know:

Hou Yi, a renowned archer, shot down 9 of the 10 suns in the sky. As a reward for saving the people from a scorched fate, he was given the elixir of immortality by the Queen Mother of the West. However, he did not drink the vial, as he loved his wife, Chang’e, and wanted to stay with her. After relating this information to Chang’e, she immediately coveted the treasure for her own and stole it. She began to fly to the moon, and has remained there to this day with only the Jade Rabbit for company - as he continues to prepare the elixir of life. In other versions of this tale, Chang’e drinks the elixir in order to prevent a jealous apprentice from obtaining them, thus proving her love and loyalty. Offerings of mooncakes and fruits are made on this day to Chang’e.

Festivals and celebrations like this give us time and space to reflect on what is most important to us.

  • What are the things that you are grateful for?

  • What are the things that you most cherish?

  • What are you wanting to accomplish in life?

For myself, I am grateful for having had the opportunity to reshape my life so that it is much more fulfilling than it was a couple of years ago. I am grateful for my chosen family and the blessings I have received from my family-of-origin. I am grateful for the lessons I have learned through my journey - hard-earned as they were; without them, I would not be where I am today.

The moon is both shadow and light, and as such, symbolizes unity.

May you be filled with peace and harmony.

Red and gold lanterns for Mid-Autumn Festival
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Legal Resources in TX

Goddess of Justice, Themis - a representation of the legal system. Legal resources for therapy clients provided on this page.

The legal system can be confusing and frustrating. Here are some resources to assist you with your legal situation.

Legal Advice:

Information & Advice on how to proceed legally in your situation

 

Legal Representation:

Help with finding a lawyer to represent you in your legal case

Hopefully you find these to be helpful! Feel free to reach out and let me know if you find additional legal resources.

Disclaimer: I am not legally trained. These are resources that clients have found to be helpful throughout my clinical experience.

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